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Four Tips On How To Lead A Balanced Love Life From An Executive Matchmaker |
| Date Added: July 04, 2011 04:00:14 PM |
| Author: ruthrobinson |
| Category: Arts & Culture |
| When you first fall in love with that special someone it can be tempting to want to spend every minute of your life with them. The rush of feelings that you get when you first fall in love are beautiful, almost like a dream, but make sure while living that dream you also keep a square look at reality, because if you don't, it can come back to bite you down the line. As a matchmaker in Los Angeles, I help a lot of singles find true love and live happily ever after, but having a good relationship is not just about finding that right person, but also maintaining a relationship. One of the major reasons why relationships fail, is a lack of balance. This happens when the two people spend too much time together in the beginning. This leads not only to burn out in your relationship with your partner, but also imbalance in other parts in your life. No matter what stage a relationship is at, balance in the lives of the two people in it is very important, this is what helps maintain a healthy relationship with your partner, healthy relationships with others, and a healthy work and social life. You can achieve balance in your life by devoting equal amounts of time to each commitment in your life. Here are four top tips to maintain balance in your life while in a relationship. 1. Set aside 1-2 days a week to devote to your partner, one day being a weekend and one day being a weekday. Don't spend the whole weekend with him or her, as this will probably eat into time you have to spend with your friends, with your family or just by yourself. 2. Set aside enough time to nurture friendships: A lot of people make the huge mistake of letting their friendships fall by the wayside when they are first falling in love. If you want to have friends for the long run, don't ditch them when someone new comes into your life because chances are they won't forgive you. Have a girl's or guys night out once a week where you reconnect with your friends. 3. Set aside some alone time to just be with you, to relax, to meditate, workout, be creative or just be alone. 4. Keep up with your goals at work. whether it is starting your own business or going for that promotion, keep your eye on that goal! A lot of people let their professional goals fall by the wayside when they meet a new person. Don't let this happen to you. executive matchmaker, matchmaker in Los Angeles |
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